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How to Prevent Yourself From Getting Back With Your Ex

TweetWe have all suffered through breakups, and know that ex sex, while fun and exciting can sometimes have the horrible [...]

We have all suffered through breakups, and know that ex sex, while fun and exciting can sometimes have the horrible side effect of getting back together. I remember that my boyfriend and I broke up once, and afterwards he dyed his hair black. This convinced me that he had changed and we could make it work, so I tried again for another few months. Lo and behold he was still the little bitch he had ... More...


By • Dec 8th, 2013 • Category: Advice, SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS


The Pros and Cons of Long Distance Relationships

TweetI would never consider a long distance relationship.  I have a friend who has agreed to be in a committed [...]

I would never consider a long distance relationship.  I have a friend who has agreed to be in a committed LDR for 4 years, even though he has only been dating the guy for less than one. To me, he is setting himself up for failure, and I told him so. I believe that the point of a relationship is to fall in love and have experiences, sex, commitment, and sex, and sex, and sex with someone. In my m... More...


By • Nov 17th, 2013 • Category: Advice, SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS



How to Tell Where You Grew Up: New York Versus Florida

TweetAs many of you know (or can probably tell), I am originally from Florida. Even though I have lived in [...]

As many of you know (or can probably tell), I am originally from Florida. Even though I have lived in New York for 6 years, I am not one of those people who ever wants to “become” a New Yorker. Quick test: Which side of this image feels like home to you? Many people move to New York and are so caught up in the crazy pace of it all that they don’t want to identify with any other plac... More...


By • Nov 12th, 2013 • Category: Advice, FOOD AND TRAVEL


The Best From #SheHasHadIt’s Instagram

TweetInstagram has become a way of life for some. You wouldn’t believe the stress I go through to find the [...]

Instagram has become a way of life for some. You wouldn’t believe the stress I go through to find the perfect filter. You know who’s winning the Instagram game? #SheHasHadIt. Jarvis Derrell, the creator, is one of the funniest people I’ve ever double tapped (see what I did there?). If you feel so inclined, you can tag your own pictures with #SheHasHadIt and if it’s fierce as f... More...


By • Nov 11th, 2013 • Category: Advice, ENTERTAINMENT, Internet, SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS


Eight Ways to Tell if You Are a Hipster

TweetDo you ever look in the mirror after putting on a plaid thrift store dress and a pair of Ray-ban [...]

Do you ever look in the mirror after putting on a plaid thrift store dress and a pair of Ray-ban knock-offs with a dangling mustache and ask yourself the question: Am I a hipster? I know I do. Luckily it’s pretty easy to decipher whether you fall into a category of hipster. You take your typewriter to the park. First, ask yourself if you are condescending. If you answered no, ask yourself if o... More...


By • Oct 16th, 2013 • Category: Advice, FASHION


The Dos and Don’ts of Taking a Selfie

TweetI think we can all agree that selfies are a little self-indulgent. In fact, that is probably where the word [...]

I think we can all agree that selfies are a little self-indulgent. In fact, that is probably where the word comes from. There is nothing worse than someone taking a duck-faced selfie with their tits pushed up, from an upward angle to hide their waddle. There is nothing better than someone taking a selfie in the bathroom whilst dropping some heat, without realizing the toilet is in the photo. So h... More...


By • Oct 15th, 2013 • Category: Advice, SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS


Five Things That Change in Your 20s

TweetSo I lived through my 20s. Its funny because from the age of 20-29, you can’t possibly imagine what it [...]

So I lived through my 20s. Its funny because from the age of 20-29, you can’t possibly imagine what it will be like to be 30. When that dreaded year finally arrives, you realize it isn’t such a big deal, and you think back on all the things that changed in your 20s. I am not going to lie, it’s a real WTF moment, but more than that you come away with a sense of pride about how much... More...


By • Oct 9th, 2013 • Category: Advice


Five Reasons It’s Great To Be Single in the City During Winter

TweetAs the weather changes, so do the relationship statuses on Facebook. The colder it gets, the more people pair off [...]

As the weather changes, so do the relationship statuses on Facebook. The colder it gets, the more people pair off into relationships of convenience for the winter. I know its going against God, science, and society, but I actually think its better to be single during the colder months. Here is why: Traveling in winter is a frozen nightmare. So you are dating a really hot guy/starving musician that... More...


By • Oct 6th, 2013 • Category: Advice, Dating


How to Add “Perfect Blowjob” to Your Sexual Resume

TweetTrue story: I have been teaching girls how to give blowjobs since high school. As a gay man, I feel [...]

True story: I have been teaching girls how to give blowjobs since high school. As a gay man, I feel it is my civic duty to impart my vast knowledge on the subject since I know how it feels coming from both sides. In the age of online dating, there are more options out there than ever, so adding perfect blowjob skills to your sexual resume is just one more way to get the job, no pun intended. I do... More...


By • Sep 24th, 2013 • Category: Advice, SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS, Sex Life


Three Examples of How to be Passive Aggressive

TweetPassive aggression is probably my biggest pet peeve. Luckily, I am a man and passive aggression typically tends to be [...]

Passive aggression is probably my biggest pet peeve. Luckily, I am a man and passive aggression typically tends to be a woman’s weapon of choice. Unluckily, I am a gay man, so you can discount that last sentence entirely. Passive aggression is supposed to be a way for you to get what you want without directly asking for it, saving you from the fear of being disliked or rejected. To me, passive aggr... More...


By • Sep 17th, 2013 • Category: Advice, SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS