1. Money and time spent are positively correlated with a man’s desire for longevity. Dinner is an investment of resources… drinks, not so much. A simple formula for gaging whether a guy thinks you’re marriage material or if he’s looking for the investment to pay off quickly
2. Women who give it easy and end up marrying the guy are the exception, not the rule.
3. Men need to hunt, hunt, hunt! Think of those millions of sperm in pursuit of that one egg <—-same thing!
4. Never pick up a guy (in person, online, or otherwise). If the woman sets a leading tone, she’ll always lead and neither she nor the man will be satisfied by the dynamic.
5. Men must to do the choosing! If he’s not asking you out he’s: a. just not that into you; b. emotionally unavailable; or c. with someone else. If you ask him out, he may accept, but he’s still: a. just not that into you; b. emotionally unavailable; or c. with someone else
Excellent advice to women! As a Matchmaker, I give this same advice to women all the time.